Junk Drawer -- May 29, 2k9 (Love Edition)

extreme junk!!

A man’s mustache is part of his face. If she doesn’t love it, then she doesn’t love you.

(furrowing my brow)

Chick Flicks= The key to a woman’s heart.

Sports Chicks = The key to a man’s heart

Nice Kicks = The key to Ben’s heart.

not necessarily in that order

Baa means no!

http://www.likeobscurevainefforts.com/p1.html

That’s the first comic out of sixty eight.

a seven nine baller. yowzers. link

pun intended btw.

Should not be up… I have to go hang out with old people at seven Am tomorrow at their board meeting… keep the junk alive through the night.

getting women at college is significantly different than at any other venue IMO

I think love is too individual and personal for general advice to be effective. I, for one, hate playing games, but that might work for some people.

How about I just give you my favorite (or one of my favorites) love quotes. I’m sure you’ve all heard it before.

Alfred Lord Tennyson
“’Tis better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all.”

and a slightly different version

“To love and win is the best thing. To love and lose, the next best.”

William Makepeace Thackeray

don’t wait for a “good opportunity” to ask a girl out. if you do, you will never get the chance cause she before you know it she has a big boyfriend who could beat you up.

http://www.blazersedge.com/2009/5/28/891964/hardwood-paroxysm-player

seems interesting.

i’ll catch you all later.

did it get link dropped yesterday?
http://sports.yahoo.com/nba/blog/ball_dont_lie/post/365-days-with-an-inanimate-Greg-Oden;ylt=AvJ1T3RlEmKk0KvXGlQxOi8vLYF?urn=nba,166571

that the west is going to be insanely good next year. With the l*kers still themselves, denver looking strong, a healthy spurs team plus maybe splitter, houston was really good in the playoffs and with a healthy yao and maybe mcgrady(for at least part of the season), the blazers(of course). stuff is going to be tight at the top. plus a couple of those mid level teams and the young crummy teams getting older

1)love is defined bifferantly by everyone so fined out what love means to your partner
2)just play yourself if you express love openly do that if it is harder for you make sure your lover knows how hard it is for you
3)you can’t define something that is always changing

And lastly I give you some advise that has been handed down father to son on for over a hundred years in my family. “In life god grants you 1 good dog,1 good horse, and 1 good women. I have had a lot of good dogs own more then my fair share of good horses but I have only meet one person like your mother and I would mot be worth a soft pinch of poo with out her.” Those words came from my dad when he was in his 60’s and raised 6 kids and had been married over 40 years. they were advise that he was told on his wedding day from his pa.

I passed 10,000 posts on Bedge and didn’t even know it.

DATE A LOT OF DIFFERENT PEOPLE. Really figure out what you like in a person and what you want. It will likely be different than what you expected, so don’t think you already know until you have dated different types of people.

Even if one is waiting for marriage to do different “date stuff”, it don’t matter— you need to figure out what sort of personality you best mesh with. The rest can be figured out.

I also think it is important to live together before marriage, but psuedo-living together is likely enough. You just don’t really know a person till you live with them, and you don’t know if you actually hate them until you live with them. For something you ideally only wanna do once like marriage, it’s an important thing to know whether you can stand living with the person.

I got friends who married too young, too quickly, to people they didn’t realize they actually can’t stand. If you’re gonna be with this person forever, does it hurt to not get married so fast and make sure you even LIKE this person? Don’t be in a rush for nuthin’.

Plus, who you are changes drastically from 18-25, and then onwards.

So go on now, get out there, and good luck!

Mortimer

i am not looking for love.. i am looking for me… i wish all of you luck but might merely suggest that you resist looking too hard for anything… "love is the “stuff” that makes life bloom and you never know when you might step in it"… most mistakes happens when people don’t just let the game come to them.. that’s not being passive.. but reading the situation and making the best play possible…

i don’t know what going to spain will mean for me, but it is next step…so… i’m sure i’ll visit from spain but can never know what will happen in life.. i’m going to let the game come to me afterall… here is one last shoutout…

This one goes out to you and yours — worldwide
I say hey I’ll be gone today
But I’ll be back come around the way
It seems like everywhere I go
The more I see, the less I know
But I know one thing that I love you
I love you, I love you, I love you -m. franti

http://www.welcometoloudcity.com/2009/5/29/891826/attention-lurkers-members-get-all

“Most teams we’ve spoken to in Chicago are indicating that they believe Oklahoma City is indeed leaning towards picking Harden. They also believe the Thunder are not enamored with Rubio at all, as they are committed to developing Russell Westbrook at his natural position—point guard.” -draftexpress

Is it wrong that I want OKC to succeed? I think picking Thabeet or Rubio would be a mistake. I also thought this was interesting.

-Larry Brown is reportedly extremely high on Stephen Curry, and may be willing to trade up in order to get him. Apparently he views him as being able to play either guard position, even alongside Charlotte’s current group of point guards, Raymond Felton and D.J. Augustin.

Curry is getting love from teams as high up as Washington and also has a chance to be drafted 6th (Minnesota) or 7th (Golden State). While the Knicks clearly like him, he isn’t the only player they will consider—the other top candidates on their board currently appear to be Tyreke Evans and Jrue Holiday.

Is Curry the anti-Rubio?

But I haven’t been able to pull in pics for about 3 days. I currently use flickr. I see pics in the threads, but I’ve always had to pull in pics while in a post (create fanpost area), and then copy the html formatting to get it into a thread.
Thread advice and "create fanpost" advice will be greatly appreciated. Anyone else having trouble? is this a flickr issue? updating site issue? Seems like if you’re able to post pics in the thread you could also do it a draft? I can’t do either since I use a conversion of the drafts to post thread pics.
Maybe roybot could sell some shoes and donate to Ben & Dave.
Just kidding toyrob…rbooty…toyorb…roybot
I’ll be back tomorrow for any advice.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=k-rR3X2UiQU

 Someone calling LeBron “Lechoke” after yesterdays game? Facepalm

avoid any inkling to desiring it. Avoid anyone who is too involved in it. Make every effort to stay out of it. Love is trouble Love makes wise men break their banks, Stupid women get pregnate when they don’t think they should be, and splits up more marriages in present day than STD’s, or maybe that’d be the lack of it….. but in anycase it’s wayyyyyyyy overrated….. I believe that it’s nothing more than some terrible definition of a few emotional outbursts, and maybe some gland releasage……. other than that… what is so diffrent between love and deeply caring about something…..

Love is just …. silly really a waste of time to make people happy that don’t really appriciate it. imo…

but I’m a grouch too so…. ;)

http://www.nytimes.com/2009/05/29/business/global/29lacroix.html?em

or at least Mike Love (of the Beach Boys)

hmm…..make sure your have common likes/activities with your love interest…..the worst thing is to find out 6 months in….that the only thing you have in common is the Bedroom

I don’t know if that says more about her, or me. The author thinks that if woman go around acting superior and hard to get it will keep the men challenged, and therefore not bored. The ultimate no-no is to let him have you right away, cuz then he gets bored and won’t find you interesting ever again. I think it’s a stupid book.

For me, I was engaged to a girl in college, and it ended badly. I was WAY too emotionally involved, and couldn’t see all the negatives until I was so angry that I couldn’t see any of the positives. I promised myself I wouldn’t date for a year, and literally wrote a list of the must-haves, and can’t-haves of a potential spouse. This list has to be short, obviously, but I was able to avoid some people based on it, and it was the right move. My list looked like this:

Must Have/Be
-Responsible with money
-Decent relationship with her parents
-Direct communicator

Can’t Have/Be
-Bad Driver
-So insecure I have to constantly provide validation
-too much of a right winger

The next person I dated, I married, so I think it worked pretty well. Hope that helps.