It is a nice sunny Sunday morning, I was able to sleep in, I have a nice cup of coffee and some toast. It really couldn't be more pleasant of a morning. Naturally my mind turned to those special people in my life........ and how they drive me abolutely crazy. I have been married now for 13 years to my lovely wife and over that time she has demonstrated many moments of grace and love. She has also built a growing list of things she does that set my teeth on edge. For instance, when ever we go grocery shopping and then return home with a giant car load of goods (requiring multiple trips from the car to the house), she will grab a handful of stuff and take it into the house (as will I) and then start putting stuff away and leave me to walk back and forth to car 7 more times (usually in the rain). On weekends, she feels guilty if she doesn't work harder on house work than she does at her regular job and gets pissed if I don't feel the same way. When she pours herself a glass of milk, she always stops drinking it when there are 2 inches left in the glass.....regardless of how full the glass was to begin with. When she cooks in the kitchen (where else), she doesn't clean up as she goes and she puts all the dishes in the sink with the disposal along with the scrap food which requires me to move all the dishes to the other sink just so I can clean off the plates and run the disposal.
So the question to all of you with a significant other that you have been with for a long time.....it this normal (I suspect it is) and what kind of things do they do that bug you?